Our dinner (Mom and Dad called it 'supper.' "How old-fashioned," I thought in the first grade.) was meat, potatoes, gravy, a hot vegetable, and a fresh vegetable, 95% of the time. The other 5% was chili, soup, stew, spaghetti or barbequed ribs (Mom's recipe from the green cookbook, I'll post that later.) I remmeber standing at Mom's or Dad's elbow while they removed the meat from the frypan, added a little more Crisco to melt, stirred in the flour, let it brown, added lots of milk to make a pan gravy. As a kid I didn't like pan gravy. Sometime around puberty I found I loved pan gravy. I have always loved a good roast gravy. Mom made hers with cornstarch and so do I.
I guess here is a spot to explain how I grew up with plain cooking. Dad doesn't like spices or herbs in his food. (He got kicked out of a nursing home when he broke his hip, last Christmas, because he caused a mutiny over the food. No lie. They put basil in the tomato soup!) He loves meat, potato, gravy, a veg, bread, and butter. When we had spaghetti, we cooked him a hamburger patty and a boiled potato. Mom served her barbeque short ribs with rice. We cooked Dad a boiled potato. The only casseroles we had were scalloped potatoes and mac & cheese. At the same meal. He has loosened up since he married Dorthy. He still will not eat lamb, mutton, goose, or rabbit. I'll tell you some of his goose and rabbit stories later.